Generosity means sharing what you have. To be truly generous, however, you must do more than give money or objects that have little or no value for you. You must give of yourself and your time, which are often more precious, and with no expectation of being compensated. True generosity is sharing what is meaningful or has value, without expecting any thanks or consideration, in return.

In the martial arts, there are many ways to be generous. Offer your time to assist another student with his or her training. Don’t expect any help in return, however. Help to defend those who are unable to defend themselves. Coordinate fund-raisers to help underprivileged people in your community. Entertain seniors at retirement centers with martial arts demonstrations.

Are you a generous person? Ask yourself the following questions to measure your generosity.

·         Would you share your lunch with a friend if he or she didn’t have one?

·         Would you volunteer to baby sit for a friend without being paid?

·         Would you help a family member or friend with a project, without expecting anything in return?

·         Would you lend your jacket to a younger person even though you are cold?

·         Would you spend time with an elderly family member instead of a day with your friends?

If you answered, “Yes,” to all of these questions, then you are a very generous individual. Many people probably like you, and you have great relationships with your friends and family. You are a truly generous person and you make society a better place to live.